Have you ever wondered why bad things happen to good people? Yes, bad things do happen to good people. That is why it is so hard to understand. Sometimes, it even leads us to question our belief. If there is someone omnipotent out there, who is supposed to be loving and good; why do do bad things still happen to good people then?
Religion
Of course there is always a religious answer and that is; only through pain will we learn to pray and seek the help of God, Allah, or the Universe. Because as humans, people have the tendency to forget about God most especially if things are going well. God’s plan is for us to return to Him more so if we have gone astray.
Science
And then there is a scientific explanation. In Quantum Physics, everything around us is matter. And matter is energy, including humans. How do you feel if you are talking to a toxic person or if you are in a toxic workplace or environment? It does not feel good, right? That is because what you are feeling is directly influenced on the atomic level by the vibrational frequency of the person or the environment for that matter. If you spend more time with that person or in that environment, before you know it; you too will become toxic person too.
In short, bad things happen to good people because they are in the low vibrational frequency. Like attracts likes. It has nothing to do with being good or bad. Neither it is an issue of whether one person deserves it or not. It is just simply vibration, frequency and energy. Thus, it is important to always be wary of our predominant emotions.
Emotions and Their Frequencies
According to Dr. David R. Hawkins, director for the Institute of Spiritual Research, Inc and belling selling author of the Map of Consciousness, all our thoughts, attitudes, feelings and emotions have frequencies.
To be happy and healthy, our goal is to move from the lower frequency to the higher frequency. But as humans, our frequencies are always vibrating. Stay in the low frequency for so long, and you will be attracting negative things, people and event. In the same way, stay in the high frequency for long and you will be attracting good things into your life. At 200 Hz, having courage is the middle ground. Any emotions below 200 Hz is considered low.
Learn The Lesson and Move On
What if you found yourself in such a situation wherein a bad thing happen to you? Rather than playing the blame game, it is better to learn the lesson and move on. Instead of asking yourself “why did it happen TO me?’ why not ask “why did it happen FOR me?”. By changing the question, you are moving on from your victim mentality to taking responsibility. And it is only through taking responsibility for what happened to you will you be able to overturn the events and change the ending to your desired outcome.
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